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National Study of Child Protective Services Systems and Reform Efforts http://aspe.hhs.gov/hsp/cps-status03/The Crisis of Foster Care: http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,998479,00.html Practice the Art of Listening: http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_7427/is_200809/ai_n32294351/ Practice the Art of ListeningONS Connect, Sep 2008 by Hochberg, Karen
Epictetus, an ancient Greek philosopher, once said, "Nature gave us
one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak."
To become a great communicator, we must apply that equation to
spending twice as much time developing our listening skills as we do
planning our replies. Listen up and try some of these techniques.
* Identify listening habits. What does it feel like when someone really listens to you? What behaviors do you find irritating in the listening habits of other people? Identify for yourself a list of your listening habits that work for you and those you need to change. * Ask questions. Learn to ask questions that encourage dialogue. Give feedback, make eye contact, and summarize what you have heard or ask the speaker to clarify. Ask, "Are you saying such and such? What I heard you say is this. Is this what you meant?" *Avoid formulating a response. Listen to the entire message before you craft your response. On average, we can think 500 words per minute, and the normal speaking rate is about 125-150 words per minute. This gap can lead to communication breakdown or your mind to drift off to other thoughts. * Remove distractions. Let the speaker know if the time is right. If you are stressed or in the middle of another project, simply say so and schedule another time or ask for a few minutes. Let the speaker know that you want to be fully present for the conversation. [By Karen Hochberg, MS, ONS Director of Marketing and Public Relations]
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To all family activists: Best way to kick-start Statewide activity
Greetings! As a listed or potential County, State and/or higher leader for UCRCoA, the largest online network of family rights activists and organizations in America, I wanted to explain the very best - and easiest - way for you to organize all the people in your own State into full gear action, since basically everything is available and ready for you, right now.
Social/Political
Issues > Cardinal Rule # 1: No matter who you are, UCRCoA,
or any other family rights group out
there, your issues involve legal litigation, federal constitutional
guarantees, and due process rights. I don't care what kind of family rights
issue is your main issue -- if it involves family rights, it
surely involves law and legal actions, at
one time or another... Moreover, the Federal Government has built its
buildings and manned its various programs and services - including the
federal court system - where most of their cattle, er, I mean the American
population, is actually located at. You must organize in the
same fashion, i.e., in some way reflecting a mirror image of the same
current apparatus of what you are most interested in challenging.
This is Cardinal Rule # 1 for creating any
social/political change.
The political parties have known this for over
200 years. Their main core interest is getting the votes, so they organize
in a mirror image of where the voting happens, even down to the precinct
level. Both sides of the abortion issue organize in relation to wherever
the abortions are actually happening at, i.e, at the clinics. EndTheFed
activists organize and rally around where the Federal Reserve banks are
located at, and sometimes at their sub-bank locations. ...etc., etc., etc.
Accordingly, in order to effectively
organize the family rights
movement, you must setup
"management coverage" for the two kinds of general activity that are in the
family rights movement:
(a)
public events, like rallies, conferences, email and phone/fax blitzes,
passing news, and virtually everything else of sporadic and planned
activities for the different family rights issues out there, which
necessarily includes using local geography if talking about recruiting
support and attendance for physical events; and
(b),
coordinated legal defense/attack litigation over custodial rights and
related issues, whether helping individuals in their own cases, assisting
small groups in a localized legal challenge, or doing statewide or
nationwide legal challenges.
Precisely *because* these things involve legal
(court) issues regarding federal constitutional rights, federal due process
rights, federal caselaw, and *federal* so forth and so on, the very
best way to
effectively organize the family rights movement within
your own State is to organize in a mirror image of the federal
court system within your own State, i.e., geographically within your State,
according to the jurisdictional breakdown of the federal court system there:
1. per "Districts",
of which each State has either just one District for the whole State
(generally, the less populated States..), or has two, three, or even up to
four Districts that divide that State up into distinct areas, and
2. per "Divisions",
which are the sub-divisions of the Districts. Each Division is a cluster of
Counties. Typically, there are 3-5 Divisions within each District of a
State, but it varies per State population, # of total counties, etc.
This is how UCRCoA was designed
from the beginning - to provide
natural, effective management coverage of OUR leadership to the
general American population out there, by providing for leadership breakdown
for both types of general activity, i.e., the larger general
public stuff (7 Regions >
States), and the more private legal
stuff (11 Circuits > States).
At the State level and below,
everything is the same for all leadership and geographical
coverage, public stuff and legal stuff, and the only difference per State is
just in the number of State Directors needed to properly handle the size of
population and number of Counties (or "Boroughs" for Alaska, or
"Parishes" for Louisiana) of that particular State...
For example, Indiana has two (2) federal court
system "Districts", the Northern District of Indiana, and the Southern
District of Indiana. Each of the two Districts of Indiana just happens to
have four Divisions apiece, each headquartered in a larger city of that same
cluster of counties (of that Division area). A color-coded map of Indiana
illustrating this breakdown is online here, near the top of the file list in
that folder:
In
the Indiana example/map, the Northern District is represented by
brownish colors, and each of
the four Divisions there are shown by slightly different brownish colors,
while the Southern District is represented by
blues. There are actually only four Divisions within the
Southern District, but the "Indianapolis Division" was so large (26
counties), that it was decided to break it in half (shown by the two
lightest blue colors in the central and east-central areas of the state),
for better management purposes. So, for Indiana's 92 counties, covered by
two Districts with a total of eight (8) actual Divisions, I have split the
largest Division in half, for a total of nine (9) areas of state management
over county leaders and county groups of people, i.e., for nine (9)
State Directors
total needed to handle Indiana effectively.
In that same online folder above, there are also
a few other already-finished color-coded breakdown maps that I painted, for
Florida, which has three main Districts, shown as Northern [Divisions in
greens], Middle [Divisions in
blues], and Southern [Division
in reds], then another
color-coded map for Texas,
which I went ahead and painted simply because it is the State with the
largest number of counties (254!!) and has so many Divisions within its four
different main Districts, and which is why UCRCoA is designed for a total of
about 27 State Directors needed for the entire State of Texas. Any of the
States that only have one District will still have more than one Division
within that single District, to divide down the clusters of Counties
covered. However, no matter how small a few given States might be
(population / # counties), a minimum of five (5) State Directors are
strongly suggested, regardless. Fortunately, most States have three to a
dozen State Directors already, now. But, some States still need more, and
some state leaders are no longer active enough, and can be replaced by those
willing to step up and lead their own Divisions of counties.
There's also another example in that same online
folder, for the State of Virginia, which was found directly on a Virginia
federal court website. I don't prefer the color-scheme, but it still
clearly shows the Districts and Divisions breakdown:
There very well may be lots of other pre-made
color-coded State maps out there, on different federal court websites...
This is the goal of leadership coverage
for all of United Civil Rights Councils of America, you see -- to
have a STATE leader for each "Division" within the District(s) of the
federal court system within each State. Each of these geographic-interested
State Directors then is the manager of that Division's cluster of counties,
including that
cluster of county team leaders, and that collection of online county local
Yahoo groups, plus all the citizens on those same local county groups.
You can find-get-download the corresponding county map for YOUR State in
that folder, too, and then "drop" colors into the clusters of counties,
to paint up your own State's color-coded map, using one of the two free
paint/image/graphics softwares that I have provided here for you:
If you do create/paint your own State's color-coded county map, please
send me a copy, so that it can be uploaded into the StateMaps folder for
everyone else in your State, too. Thanks!
Here's how to do it:
1. Go to the StateMaps folder online. Again,
that is here:
2. Click the STATENAME_map.html file that is for
your State.
3. Then you see the image for your State's
counties, so right-click on it, and save the image to your
computer.
4. Using one of the two free paint softwares
available, again, located here:
... you open up your State's county image map in
your paint software, choose your current paint color, and use the paint
"flood"/"bucket" tool to flood that color into that entire county, by
clicking once inside the borders of that county. Before "dropping" the first
flood of color into the very first county, do a one-time set of your
"Tolerance"/"Saturation"/"Threshold" percentage to about 30-40%, which is a
good saturation value for filling all the way into the inside edges of the
borders for each county, for these collection of county map images. For the
Paint.Net software, the "Tolerance" is right there already at the top, so
just slide it leftwards to around 35% or so... close enough. For the
PaintShopPro5 software, open the button/icon that is "Control Palette" and
adjust your percentage there for the flood/bucket tool.
5. Drop or "flood" the same color into each
County for that same cluster of a particular federal court Division.
6. Repeat as needed for all counties in that
particular Division, then switch color for the next Division/cluster - use
different shades of the SAME basic color (i.e., shades of green, or shades
of blue, etc.) for all of the Divisional clusters in any one main District.
Then, change to another set of color shades for another District's different
Divisions. See the examples already done, above linked, for general
guidance and coloring shade ideas.
7. In order to know WHICH counties are part of
which Division - i.e., to learn how your State is broken down into Districts
and Divisions, and to find lists or descriptions of county clusters used for
Divisions - start off by going to the U.S. Federal Courts main website, at
http://www.uscourts.gov/courtlinks, to see the entire USA map of
Circuits, and click on your State. This will give you a results page with
links to all/most of the different kinds of federal courts in your State.
You are only interested in the regular District courts, not the bankruptcy
courts, federal defender offices, federal pre-trial offices, or anything
else - just the links to the main District courts, and within each of those
specific main District court websites (there is always at least one main
website for each main District of a state), you can find their various
"Divisional" offices and which counties belong to each Division. Another
set of counties maps, showing *only* the main Districts of each State, one
color per District, is available here
http://www.fedstats.gov/mapstats/fjd for your reference.
You can see an overview of [ # leaders / #
Districts / State ], here:
With color-coded maps available for a State,
showing shades of colors for each Division cluster of counties, the State
Directors can easily divide up their shared coverage -- command and control
-- of the entire State's set of county team leaders, online county groups,
and therefore, all of the people hanging out (now and future) on those
online county groups.
It doesn't matter whether or not we are talking
about organizing UCRCoA better, or organizing the entire family rights
movement effectively, or organizing some other family rights organization --
it's all the same, because it's all family rights, which necessarily
involves fighting legal battles, in addition to whatever else. Therefore,
the only/best way to organize is through geographical breakdown of the
federal court system's various jurisdictional levels, which then covers both
main general types of family rights activities, public and legal, at the
same time.. It's the only way to fly.
Don't be shy - step right up, and lead this
Nation back to reality.
Sincerest Regards,
------------------------------------------ Mr. Torm Howse Co-Founder, National Board Director, Instructor, United Civil Rights Councils of America http://unitedcivilrights.org Co-Founder, National Board Director, Trustee, Parental Alienation Awareness Organization - US http://paao-us.com Founder, Owner, President, The FIDO Network http://fidonetwork.com General Contact: P.O. Box 68665 Indianapolis, Indiana 46268 (317) 286-2538 office (888) 738-4643 fax indianacrc@...
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